"At
times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark
from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude
of those who have lighted the flame within us." ~~Albert Schweitzer
Hi all, Like
many of you, I'm already caught up in the holiday rush. At
least partly. So this is kinda a laid back
newsletter. It's actually part one of two. Next week
we'll again be considering some of our favorite John, TBAA, and
JABB- related winter holiday memories. So if you have
anything you'd like to add for that newsletter, please don't
hesitate to let me know. Stay
warm, stay joyful... try to stay rested! God
bless, Jenni
(Thank you Michelle for the nifty graphic!)
From Rebecca:
I definitely have
my TBAA traditions. TBAA is definitely now integrated
into my Holiday traditions and I couldn't imagine the
holidays without some TBAA! I have to watch "An
Unexpected Snow" for Thanksgiving. That is definitely
a tradition of mine. I also place "A Christmas Gift"
in that category because I believe it spans both
Thanksgiving and Christmas. As for Christmas I
will usually have a marathon on Christmas Eve with "Fear
Not" and "The Feather." Somewhere in there I will also
watch "It Came Upon a Midnight Clear." Have already
watched "Angel on the Roof." My mother in law
usually comes on Christmas Eve and at some point both she
and my husband will have to see at least two Christmas TBAA
with me. It's a tradition. Also wanted to add I
never look at turkey the same way after "An Unexpected
Snow"!! Ah Adam and Alexander a whole new take
on Turkey. Happy early Holidays
everyone. Rebecca
From Jenni: So I have a *ton* of
favorite holidays memories and traditions that have built up
since 1996 when I became a John Dye fan and started watching Touched every week. So many,
in fact, that I'm saving some for the next issue. But for
right now, in no particular order, these are my favorite winter
holiday moments from JABB's 13 years. 1. Christmas 2009-
It had been my tradition for years that the JABB Christmas story
would feature parodies and homages to other Christmas
fare. I think my all-time favorite example of this was in
"The
Past, the Present, the Future." Inspired by a Christmas episode of Frasier, I had Andrew
prowling around Willowveil dressed as Jesus. Unfortunately
for him, he was found by JenniAnn's father who just wasn't quite
sure what to make of finding an angel of death hiding in his
daughter's kitchen dressed as a member of the Trinity and drinking
ginger ale... I do so love awkward humor!
2. Sorry... I have to get serious here. In the last
Christmas story I had LJA make one of her sappiest, most
devoted, most unconditional declarations of love to Andrew.
I remember thinking as I wrote that scene that it seemed like I
was writing a finale. I wasn't. But it was the last
Dyeland story I wrote before so much changed for us. Now it
just seems really poignant to me.
3. JABB 11- Honestly, I can't even read
it without cringing these days. What were we thinking with
some of these old Dyeland plot lines and characters?!?
Still... it was our first stab at writing a Dyeland story, I
believe. So I'm proud of us for branching out. 4. The Dyeland
Cookbook- I can't even remember what Christmas we did this for
but I think as far as our snail-mailing projects, this was my
favorite. And I still consult it sometimes! The
various decorations we brainstormed together are also among my
most treasured Christmas mementos. 5. CABB 4- To date, I think this is my
favorite specifically Thanksgiving-oriented issue. There
are certain things you can't do as a kid that you can later on
as an adult. But there are also certain things that you
can do as a kid and then really struggle with as an adult.
For me, poetry is apparently one of those things. I used
to write it when I was younger and now nothing ever comes out
right. But I still get misty eyed whenever I read this
piece about Adam and his Alexander. 6. Just a moment
to be bratty, please. My brother isn't the biggest JABB
fan in the world. But that didn't stop me from using his
graphic for a
Thanksgiving issue.
Haha! He gave it to me so that means I can use it however
I want! 7. Part
Two of "In the House of the Lord." This remains one of my favorite
stories and it became even more important to me when I learned
just how much John cared about the homeless. In the story,
Andrew is reunited with his friends for Thanksgiving after
spending some time living on the streets. I have to say
that writing this story probly changed me more than any other
JABB story. 8. This is one of
the very few stories I've written in which Andrew isn't the
star. But I had just an amazing time writing "Origins." I sometimes refer to
it as "my first grown-up story." I guess just cause it was
so heavy on romance and grief. The part where Lor makes
Cora Christmas ornaments makes me feel warm and fuzzy.
Also... I feel like writing this was a God thing. As a
whole, the story is about continuing to live after losing
someone you love and making your life a testament to all they
meant to you. Early last January, I felt pulled to re-read
it. I really didn't want to cause, like I said, Andrew
isn't the central character. But I relented. Now, of
course, I know why I was meant to re-read it in the days before
John went Home. It was sorta like having my younger self
pull my older self through those dark days. Everything I
had written about not letting grief consume and destroy became
really important. 9. "Carry
On" is, I think,
the only Veteran's Day story. It humbles me to think about
all those who have given their lives for their countries as well
as those, like my grandpas, who served and returned to their
families. But writing it also gave me new appreciation for
real angels. All the battlefields they've been on...
All the violence they've seen. And yet... still they do
the Father's will and bring messages of love during times of
war. Wow. 10. All the fun
times spent dreaming up different variations on Santa costumes
for Adam! 11. Trying to cram
a reference to It's a Wonderful Life into every JABB Christmas
story for the past several years. It's tradition. It
must happen! 12. Trying to write
JABB's own "12
Days of Christmas"
and having my best friend kindly point out to me that count
downs don't go "3...2...3!!!" You know you're sleep
deprived when you apparently forget the number 1 exists. 13. "Tidings
of Comfort and Joy."
A couple follows a star and winds up with a baby. You
can't get much more Christmas-y than that... especially when a
person has been waiting for said couple to get their happily
ever after since the late 80s... 14. "I'll
Be Home for Christmas." So clearly I just really like writing Christmas
stories. But beyond that... this story finds Andrew
helping an Iraq War veteran make his way home for
Christmas. I just like that over time we graduated from
strictly parody stories to actually taking on some of the issues
of the day. So big thanks to all who have supported JABB
as it transitioned from top tens and such to something that I
hope more accurately pays homage to the show and to the man who
inspired its existence and, thus, every item on this list. 15. In general, I
just love that we have this tradition of Christmas
stories. Sometimes I get stressed trying to find the time
to write them amid all the holiday chaos. But I also fear
what I'd be doing without them. Because they force me to
sit down and really think about the message of the season: God's
love for us all and the importance of showing that love to each
other.
A Thanksgiving Prayer
Just thought it'd be nice to wrap
this up with a blessing for the holiday. Though not
everyone among us is celebrating Thanksgiving a week from
Thursday, I think we all have reason to be grateful.
Dear Father,
Whether November 24th finds us gathered around a table
enjoying a festive meal or not, please help us to develop
spirits of gratitude. Enable us to see Your work and
Your love in each and every person around us. Guide us
as we confront the hustle and bustle of the holiday season so
that we never forget what it's all about: Your love.
We thank You for the friendships You have created in this
group. Thank You for the inspiration, the hope, and the
peace we have found in John's work and in the example of his
life. May Your love and Your peace surround his family
and all who love him.
Amen. Alleluia.
This newsletter is
dedicated to the sheer number of things John gave us that we
are grateful for. To list all the things he taught us,
all the words that enabled us to face adversity, all the
bonds he helped form, all the much needed laughs, and all
the healing tears would take us into eternity. So
until we're there with him, may John know that as we say
thanks for the blessings in our lives we count him among
them.